Monday, February 11, 2008

How Far I've Come....

Seeing as this is my first official blog, I suppose I should tell you all a little about myself. As you may have already guessed, my name is Dara, and I am in the second semester of my second year at St. Thomas University School of Law. I graduated from the University of South Florida in 2002, moved to New York City to do the starving actress thing, and then moved back home with my parents after deciding that taking my LSAT and going to law school seemed like the lesser of two evils…
Now that the formalities are dispensed with, I can get down to the nitty gritty, the truth about my life, or lack thereof, as a law student… Have you ever had a day where you had nothing to do, and you just stayed in bed all day watching television and reading magazines? Sigh… I remember those days. Those pre law school days. See, I never thought I would end up here. My original plan was miles away from St. Thomas, and from law school in general. I started out as an actress. An honest to goodness, theatre majoring, NYC auditioning, working in retail to pay the bills, actress… It never ceases to amaze me how things turn out. If you would have told me four years ago that I would be sitting in the breezeway at St. Thomas, writing this blog so I didn’t have to read my monster Con Law assignment for tommorrow… I would have called you crazy. But here I am, and my NYC days seem to get further away with every word I type. Don’t think for one minute, though, that I regret my decision to go to law school, because that is definitely not the case. I have channeled my love of theatre into a newfound love of litigation and am completely smitten with the courtroom. Not that it has always been an easy transition. True confession time… I was fortunate enough to land an interview with one of the bigger firms in South Florida. I was so excited… I had my new suit… my resume all prepared… all my perfect answers carefully held on reserve until just the right moment presented itself to impress them with my brilliance… the first attorney I met with was the hiring partner. THE HIRING PARTNER! I was ready. I was so going to land this job. He shook my hand and hit me with the line I will never forget, “So… you were a theatre major? Really? That’s a real major? They really let you major in theatre?” Long story short, he wasn’t kidding… he thought I was a moron without ever hearing one of my brilliant answers. I didn’t get that job.
But its not all sadness and worry here in the land of the reformed actress. I impressed the heck out of another firm who only does litigation (litigators get the whole theatre thing), and I will be working there as a summer associate beginning in May. This “stupid” actress has also been elected the President of Mock Trial, been selected as a member of Law Review, and is going to be published in an upcoming issue of said Law Review. So take that, Mr. You Were An Actress So You Obviously Have No Brain.
I will end with a little unsolicited advice. Don’t let anyone dictate what you can do with your life. You know who you are, and what you are capable of. People will always try to tell you that you can’t. Don’t listen. I never really knew how much I was capable of until I turned my world upside down and came to law school. There are days where I sit back for the few seconds I have to myself and allow myself to think about how far I’ve come…. and I am proud. Live your life in a way that makes you proud! Catch you next time
Cheers,
Dara

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, what an inspiring blog, from a fellow USF alum (GO BULLS!). There are many of us out there at a crossroads, as I will be moving back home to S.FL soon. And as a graduate of USF's English department, I identify with the comments about my major as well (mine are more like "so, what do you do with that degree?"). Thanks for the encouraging post and best of luck to you!

daralynn13 said...

Thank you for your comment! I find that the moments we find ourselves at a crossroads are the moments that allow us the opportunity to choose our own destiny... exciting stuff, huh? Best of luck to you, as well!
Cheers,
Dara

Anonymous said...

I'm a current USF student majoring in International Relations...my ultimate goal is to attend law school. I was just wondering if you had any special advice? Also congrats on all your acomplishments so far! I wish you a lot of great days for the future and best of luck :)

daralynn13 said...

Hi Brendan -

First of all, GO BULLS!!! Special advice before law school, huh? Hmmmm..... enjoy college would probably be my first piece of advice. Undergrad is so very different than law school, so enjoy every second of it that you possibly can. If International Relations is your thing, then you might be interested to know that STU has an incredible International Law program. My friends who are studying International Law here have been exposed to so many opportunitues. Other than those little tidbits of information.... work hard and go after what you want.... study for the LSAT, score well, and get a scholarship lol Scholarships tend to be very helpful when attending law school :) My final piece of advice is this; before going to law school, know why you are going, and what you hope to get out of it... go because its what you really want to do, not because its what your parents want, or because you can't figure out what else to do with your life. As much as I love law school, it is an exhausting, arduous process, and if I wasn't absolutely sure that this is what I am supposed to be doing with my life, then I would resent being here. If you know in your heart that law school is the right choice for you, then your future is wide open. If you have any specific questions you would like answered, just give me a holler.... Good luck!!!

Cheers,
Dara

Anonymous said...

GIRL!! That blog was soooo for me. I just got into STU Law, and if I hear one more person tell me what they "think I should do!!" I have currently trying to fight the fight of getting this money together to pursue my dreams of becoming an Attorney-and I must admit after reading that-I know I will be there in the fall with or without somethings or people. It will be my choice!! Thanks!!